Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Grace at 35 weeks



I am super excited as we had a wonderful dr visit today. I am 35 weeks along and Miss Piggy already weighs an esitmated 6lb 80z. She has 4 more weeks to cook as we have a C-section scheduled March 10, 2010.

Good news with todays visit is that her kidneys look better, and looks like the previous dialation seen is completely cleared up. The doc is still seeing a small VSD, but with the size of the hole he thinks surgery is not necessary. But we will have to confirm that with a cardiologist once baby girl gets here.

I can't describe my excitement seeing my little butterball today. I can't wait to hold her and kiss those big cheeks!!

Only 4 more weeks to go!!!
And YES, that is her foot in front of her little face...poor baby is running out of room.



Saturday, January 23, 2010

Grace at 27 weeks







I think its amazing that you can see she is sleeping. Her little eyelids are closed, and she is sleeping on her arm.
I also see my Aunty Carol's mouth and lips. :)





Monday, January 18, 2010

First Time Mom, Second Time Around

As I approach the 32nd week of this pregnancy (YAY only 7 weeks to go) I start to realize I am anticipating the birth of this baby girl the same way I did when my 6 year old Evan was born. I feel like I am being a first time mom all over again. I am sure its a combination of the fact that I have 2 stinky little boys already and I am finally getting my long awaited baby girl; and the fact that Grace has been diagnosed with Down Syndrome, and this is entering a whole new realm for me.

If you know me, and I mean REALLY know me, you know that I am a very detailed oriented person. I am a very anal person, and I like to have things planned out as much as possible, and I dont handle things too well that don't go as planned. (got that from my momma) Now here I am expecting my 3rd child, who is a girl, who will have special needs, and I am starting to get terrified.

I feel like I can't compare my first two newborns to what I have coming ahead. Eventhough I have read the books, visited the websites, read the experiences of other moms, it doesn't change the fact that everything will be new, and I can't prepare for what I have ahead. I just have to pray that I stay on top of everything the best I can, and I do the very best for my little
Grace.


Luckily, I have a wonderful husband, family and support system to stand by me and help me face the challenges I have ahead.


Thursday, January 7, 2010

My New Vocabulary List

Over the past few months I feel like I am back in High School learning and entirely new vocabulary list. Here is what we have learned so far:

Trisomy 21
Also, called Down Syndrome, is a chromosomal disorder caused by the presence of all or part of an extra 21st chromosome. Often Down syndrome is associated with some impairment of cognitive ability and physical growth, and a particular set of facial characteristics.
I received this diagnosis at 16 weeks into my pregnancy. Two days after I found out I was having my baby girl.

Robertsonian Translocation
a common form of chromosomal rearrangement that in humans occurs in the five acrocentric chromosome pairs, namely 13, 14, 15, 21, and 22. Other translocations occur but do not lead to a viable foetus. In humans, when a Robertsonian translocation joins the long arm of chromosome 21 with the long arm of chromosome 14 (or 15), the heterozygous carrier is phenotypically normal because there are two copies of all major chromosome arms and hence two copies of all essential genes.[2] However, the progeny of this carrier may inherit an unbalanced trisomy 21, causing Down Syndrome.
Not only did I learn more about Down Syndrome, but I learned there are different types of Down Syndrome. Grace was diagnosed with Translocation Trisomy. Its amazing what they can tell from an amnio.

Nuchal Fold Test
a sonographic prenatal screening scan (ultrasound) to help identify higher risks of Down syndrome in a fetus, particularly for older women who have higher risks of such pregnancies. The scan is carried out at 11–13 weeks pregnancy and assesses the amount of fluid behind the neck of the fetus - also known as the nuchal fold or 'the nuchal translucency'. Fetuses at risk of Down tend to have a higher amount of fluid around the neck. The scan may also help confirm both the accuracy of the pregnancy dates and the foetal viability. Its high definition imaging may also detect other less common chromosomal abnormalities.
I have never heard of this test before they told me that her NFT measurement was abnormal. This is what started the additional testing for Down Syndrome.

Amniocentisis
is a medical procedure used in prenatal diagnosis of chromosomal abnormalities and fetal infections [1], in which a small amount of amniotic fluid, which contains fetal tissues, is extracted from the amnion or amniotic sac surrounding a developing fetus, and the fetal DNA is examined for genetic abnormalities.
The procedure used to obtain Grace's diagnosis.

Clinodactyly
is a medical term describing a bend or curvature of the fifth fingers (the "little fingers") toward the adjacent fourth fingers. It is a fairly common isolated anomaly which often goes unnoticed, but also occurs in combination with other abnormalities in many genetic syndromes, such as Russell-Silver syndrome, Feingold Syndrome or Down Syndrome. When identified in prenatal ultrasound, it is considered statistically correlated with increased risk of chromosome aberration in the fetus and may be an indication for intrauterine sampling for fetal chromosome analysis.
Little Grace received this diagnosis at 22 weeks.

Ventricular septal defect (VSD)
is a defect in the ventricular septum, the wall dividing the left and right ventricles of the heart. The ventricular septum consists of an inferior muscular and superior membranous portion and is extensively innervated with conducting cardiomyocytes. The membranous portion, which is close to the atrioventricular node, is most commonly affected in adults and older children. Smaller congenital VSDs often close on their own, as the heart grows, and in such cases may be treated conservatively.
We received this diagnosis at 22 weeks. The doctor is not concerned about the heart, he says the hole is very small, and normally holes of that size close up on their own.

Pyelectasis
is a dilation of the kidney. It is a relatively common ultrasound finding and is three times more common in male fetuses. In most cases pyelectasis resolves normally, having no ill effects on the baby. The significance of pyelectasis in fetuses is not clear. It was thought to be a marker for obstruction, but in most cases it resolves spontaneously. In some studies it has been shown to appear and disappear several times throughout the course of pregnancy. There is some discussion about what degree of pyelectasis is considered severe enough to warrant further investigation and most authorities use 6mm as the cut-off point. Pyelectasis is considered to be a "soft marker” for Down syndrome. This, along with other factors such as age and a Triple test, may be grounds for an amniocentesis to test for Down syndrome.
I was told at my 28 week ultrasound that appears that Grace's kidney's are dialated. It is nothing that they would worry about, but they will keep an eye on it and make sure everything is ok once she gets here. One doctor simply put it as "her kidneys are not maturing as quickly, but with most babies, they fix them selves before they get here" Lets pray she does just that.

Perinatologist
Maternal-fetal medicine (MFM) is the branch of obstetrics that focuses on the medical and surgical management of high-risk pregnancies. Management includes monitoring and treatment including comprehensive ultrasound, chorionic villus sampling, genetic amniocentesis, and fetal surgery or treatment. An obstetrician who practices maternal-fetal medicine sometimes is known as a perinatologist. This is a sub specialty to obstetrics and gynecology mainly used for patients with high risk pregnancies.
I have been so priveledged this pregnancy, I get to have two doctors see me on a regular basis. My regular OB and my Perinatalologist.


This is all I have learned and Grace isn't even here yet. Two more months, COUNTDOWN!!! I am sure we will have new vocabulary words to add once she gets here.

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Todays PreNatal Visit - 22 weeks





So today was our first visit with the Perinatalogist since our Down Syndrome diagnosis. The visit went very well. Grace is growing on schedule and so far is clear of the major health defects that are common in Down Syndrome patients. He did detect a small hole in Grace's heart, but nothing he is too concerned with now, and we will just monitor as my pregnancy progresses. I am really not too worried about that as I have read that sometimes things like this can heal on their own. How amazingly strong and resiliant these little ones are.

Tuesday, November 3, 2009

Halloween 2009






















My little Incredible and black ninja!


Wednesday, October 28, 2009

Letter to My Friends and Family

As you probably already know, Semeon and I found out a few months ago that we are going to be adding a new little member to our family. Over the past few weeks we found out some both wonderful and surprising news that we wanted to share with our family and friends. First, we found out that we are expecting a GIRL! FINALLY after 6 years of being surrounded by nothing but boys mommy is getting her baby girl. Second, after months of various testing, we have also discovered that our baby girl has an extra chromosome (also called Down Syndrome.) Now, of course this initially came as a surprise and scare to us, as we were not familiar with Down Syndrome, the symptoms and what it does to a child. After two months of researching and learning everything I could, I soon realized that this is not a burden that has been placed on our laps, but a blessing we have received from God. Instead of thinking "why me," we truly feel that we have been chosen to care for this little angel coming into our lives. Now we know we have a journey ahead of us in the upcoming months, but we also know that we are surrounded by loving and supportive friends and family who will be there for us in case we stumble. So please, keep our little family and our little "blessing," Grace Symone, in your thoughts and prayers. We are very anxious for March 16, 2010 to get here so we can meet the newest family member, and start our new journey in life.

Love,
The Dickerson Family